Why what you see isn’t what you get! The Choose You Project
Hi All, Just a quickie this week, based on a conversation with a friend who shared that what she had experienced about something was so totally different from what I had experienced it made me stop and think: which is always a good thing. The circumstances are...
Truth is a Choice: The Choose You Project
Not a lot to say this week. Just a short reflection on the profound impact that truthfulness has on our lives, and the consequences created when we are not truthful. 96 people died and 766 were injured on the 15th April 1989, making the Hillsborough football disaster...
Trust and How to Blow It!! The Choose You Project
Hi Everyone, One of the things that has caught my attention over the past couple of weeks is around the issue of trust, or rather the lack of it! I'm finding trusting what anyone says in the build up to the UK EU referendum tricky, but now we also have the whole 'rich...
The power of remembering the good bits! The Choose You Project
Hi Everyone, I've been doing a lot of one of the things I love best recently: coaching. And some of those coaching conversations have reminded me of the interesting reality that many of us are wired to most easily recall when things have gone wrong, rather than when...
The Bugs Bunny effect? The Choose You Project
Amy Brann's book "Neuroscience for Coaches" has got me thinking again. Last time (blog of 12 02 16) we were exploring the ability of language to 'nudge' us, and there is a chapter in her book that ties in so well with my thought that: ...what we think we heard isn't...
Language as another form of ‘Nudge’: The Choose You Project
Hi Everyone, Been thinking a lot about nudging over the past couple of weeks (following my last blog dated 29 01 16). Now I know its a proper thing with a name, I can see me nudging and being nudged all over the place. And what I've realised is that I get nudged by...
The Science of ‘Nudging’ and what it does for us: The Choose You Project
Hi Everyone, Thoughts to share today are prompted by a book that I am reading. I love reading fiction but I'm not a great one for reading 'text' books: my learning style is a bit too 'experiential" for that! I've been set the challenge as I am part of a couple of...
Flagging NY Resolutions? Here’s a Top Tip: The Choose You Project
Hi Everyone, Hope you had a great holiday time. Good to be here the other side of all that eating!! And also for me good to be the other side of New Year (picture from thegaurdian.com). It's not an occasion I like (is it OK to say that out loud?). As well as the...
Be Careful of New Year Resolutions! The Choose You Project
Hi Everyone, Today I watched Major Tim Peake, the first British man (but second Brit!!), head in to space (photo from AP Photo/Dmitry Lovetsky). What a year he's had! At this time of year I find myself being quite reflective, taking time to celebrate what's been great...